Dating Coaching in Los Angeles
Are you tired of endlessly swiping on dating apps, feeling like every match leads to a dead end? Frustrated by countless dates that never evolve into the meaningful connection you crave? Or maybe you’re caught in a cycle of falling hard for someone, only to discover the feeling isn’t mutual.
If any of these scenarios resonate, you’re not alone.
Navigating the modern dating world can feel overwhelming, especially in a city as fast-paced and dynamic as Los Angeles. Whether you're new to the dating scene, returning after a long break, or struggling with persistent relationship challenges, the key to success often lies in having expert guidance. That’s where working with a Los Angeles dating coach or dating therapist can make all the difference.
As a dating coach, I’m here to help you break free from frustrating patterns, approach dating with renewed confidence, and build fulfilling relationships.
Dating can be tough, and relationships can be a challenge to navigate as well. However, this doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you--you just need a little help.
That’s where I come in.
My name is Steven Reigns, and as a relationship and dating coach in Los Angeles, I help people in L.A., and across the country gain the skills and confidence they need to feel more fulfilled in their dating lives. I can help you too.
Meet Steven Reigns, Los Angeles Dating Coach
My name is Steven Reigns, and I’m a licensed therapist and dating coach based in Los Angeles. With years of experience supporting clients as a relationship coach, online dating coach, and dating app expert, I understand the unique challenges that come with modern dating. I’m also the clinical director of Therapy for Adults, a private practice in West L.A. specializing in relationship issues. My dual expertise as a dating coach and therapist allows me to combine actionable advice with emotional insight, giving you the tools and support you need to thrive in your dating life.
As your Los Angeles dating coach, I’ll work with you to identify your goals and develop a personalized action plan for achieving them. Whether you’re struggling with online dating, navigating attachment styles, or improving your relationship skills, I can help you take meaningful steps toward lasting change.
Why Work with a Dating Coach in Los Angeles?
Dating in Los Angeles can be uniquely challenging. With its sprawling geography, diverse population, and fast-paced lifestyle, finding a genuine connection can often feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. That’s why partnering with a Los Angeles dating expert is one of the best investments you can make in your love life.
As a relationship coach, I specialize in helping clients overcome common dating challenges, including:
Navigating Online Dating Apps: If swiping through Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge feels like a second job, I’m here to help. As an online dating coach, I’ll teach you how to optimize your profile, choose compelling photos, and craft messages that lead to real connections.
Overcoming Dating App Fatigue: Many clients feel burned out by the online dating process. I’ll guide you in managing your energy and finding balance while using dating apps effectively.
Understanding Attachment Styles: As an attachment expert, I’ll help you explore how attachment theory impacts your relationships. Together, we’ll work on developing secure attachment patterns that lead to healthier connections.
Boosting Dating Confidence: Whether you’re recovering from a breakup or stepping into the dating world for the first time, I’ll help you build self-esteem and approach dating with confidence.
Breaking Unhelpful Patterns: If you’re tired of attracting the wrong people or struggling with communication issues, I’ll provide practical strategies to create healthier relationship dynamics.
My Approach As A Dating Coach in Los Angeles
I recognize how frustrating dating can be. It’s disappointing when things just don’t seem to work out the way we want them to, no matter how hard we try. We may even begin to question whether we’ll ever find love.
My coaching style is solutions-focused and results-oriented. I believe that with the right tools and support, anyone can find satisfaction and fulfillment in their love life. In our work together, I will help you identify your goal and the steps necessary to meet that goal. I believe that it is possible to move to a place of satisfaction and fulfillment in your love life--you just need the right advice and support.
Here’s how I am able to help as a dating expert:
Defining Your Goals: Together, we’ll identify what you’re looking for in a partner and what success in your dating life means to you.
Creating a Custom Plan: As your virtual dating coach, I’ll work with you to develop a step-by-step plan that’s tailored to your unique needs, whether that’s mastering online dating, building confidence, or improving communication.
Building Relationship Skills: From learning how to identify red flags to improving first-date conversations, I provide actionable advice that’s designed to help you succeed.
Providing Ongoing Support: Progress takes time, but with consistent feedback and guidance, you’ll see real results in your dating and relationships.
Why Choose Online Dating Coaching?
As an online dating coach, I work with clients across Los Angeles, California, and beyond. Virtual sessions allow us to connect no matter where you’re located, offering the same personalized guidance as in-person coaching. Whether you’re navigating the L.A. dating scene or trying to meet someone through dating apps, I’ll provide expert advice that fits your lifestyle.
Online dating doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With my help, you can approach platforms like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge with confidence and clarity, turning them into powerful tools for finding meaningful connections.
FAQs About Dating Coaching
What is relationship & dating coaching?
The term “dating coach” or “relationship coach” is exactly what it sounds like: a person who provides coaching services to help people with dating and relationship issues.
But what actually is coaching?
The concept is no different than a sports coach. Just as a tennis coach would provide support to an athlete and offer advice, direction, and feedback from the sidelines, I will do the same for you--with your love life.
As your dating coach, I will help you take stock of what’s working well in your love life and what needs to change. From there, I will provide you with suggestions and tools to help you reach your desired outcome--whatever that looks like for you.
What is the difference between a dating coach and a therapist?
While a therapist often focuses on emotional processing and deeper psychological issues, a dating coach emphasizes practical strategies for achieving specific relationship goals. As both a dating therapist and relationship coach, I bring the best of both worlds, offering insight into emotional patterns while providing actionable advice for your love life. Both a dating coach and a therapist can play an important part in helping you improve your success with dating and your satisfaction with your relationships. However, the roles they play are different.
How can a dating coach help with attachment styles?
As an attachment expert, I’ll help you understand how your attachment style—whether secure, anxious, avoidant, or fearful—impacts your relationships. From there, we’ll work on strategies to build secure attachment patterns, leading to healthier and more fulfilling connections.
How does a dating coach support online dating success?
As an online dating expert, I provide hands-on support for everything from writing a compelling profile to navigating tricky conversations. I’ll also help you create a strategy for using dating apps effectively, ensuring you meet people who align with your goals and values.
Each therapist is different, and each person’s therapy experience will look different as well. With that being said, relationship therapy may focus on issues of attachment, part of which may entail processing your relationships with your caregivers growing up.
How is dating coaching different than just talking to a friend?
It can certainly be helpful to have the support of your friends when navigating your love life. Swapping dating stories and commiserating about the hardships of dating is often a part of healthy friendships.
However, this is different from working with a dating coach. As your relationship coach, I provide an impartial viewpoint that friends are inherently unable to provide. I can look at your dating life with fresh eyes, pointing out things that you and your friends may not have been able to pick up on.
I also provide expert advice and feedback based on my years of experience working with people around relationship issues. We’ll work together to make an actionable plan to improve your dating life--something that you typically wouldn’t get from venting to friends.
What will we talk about in our dating coaching sessions?
I tailor my dating coaching services to each person, so what I talk about with one client may be different from what I talk about with another. However, there are many common themes that come up during my coaching sessions, including:
Setting goals
Reviewing communication skills
Discussing what you’re looking for in a partner
Exploring ways to meet new people
Improving confidence
Giving tips and feedback
This is not an exhaustive list--there are many other things we could discuss depending on your unique situation.
I don’t live in Los Angeles. Can we still work together?
Absolutely! Though my practice is based out of West L.A., I work with people across the country as an online dating coach.
Work Toward Your Goals with Dating Coaching in Los Angeles, CA
You don’t have to face the challenges of modern dating alone. Whether you’re seeking a dating app expert, relationship coach, or virtual dating coach, I’m here to help. Take the first step toward transforming your love life by scheduling a consultation today. Together, we’ll create a clear path to the meaningful connections and healthy relationships you deserve.
If you’re ready to feel more fulfilled in your dating life, then I can help as a relationship coach. I will work with you to customize your dating coaching sessions to your unique needs and goals. If you are ready to get started at Therapy for Adults then follow these steps:
Reach out or call (323) 538-3221 today to schedule a consultation
Start meeting with me as your dating coach
Get advice and feedback that will help improve your dating life
Other Therapy Services I Offer in Los Angeles, California
Aside from being a dating coach I am also a therapist who offers online therapy throughout Los Angeles and California. I offer counseling for anxiety, highly sensitive people, and couples.