Dating Coaching in Los Angeles

Are you sick of endlessly swiping on dating apps? Tired of going on date after date without ever finding a real connection? Or maybe you’re on the other end of the spectrum--always falling head over heels for someone just to find out that the feeling isn’t mutual?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re not alone.

Dating is tough, and relationships can be hard to navigate as well. However, this doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you--you just need a little help.

That’s where I come in.

My name is Steven Reigns, and as a relationship and dating coach in Los Angeles, and I help people in L.A., and across the country, gain the skills and confidence they need to feel more fulfilled in their dating lives. I can help you too.

 
 

Meet Steven Reigns, Los Angeles Dating Coach

Image of Steven Reigns who is a dating coach for men and women in LA. He offers unique dating coaching online throughout Los Angeles and California.

I am a licensed therapist as well as a dating coach. I am also the clinical director of Therapy for Adults, a private practice located in West L.A. that focuses on relationship issues.  I have over a decade of experience supporting people with a number of different issues, both in a group setting and one-on-one.

As a Los Angeles dating coach for men and women, I help people like you navigate dating and relationships. My solutions-oriented approach means that you will leave our sessions with actionable steps you can take in order to improve your dating life. 

My Approach As A Dating Coach in Los Angeles

I recognize how frustrating dating can be. It’s disappointing when things just don’t seem to work out the way we want them to, no matter how hard we try. We may even begin to question whether we’ll ever find love.

That’s why I take a results-oriented approach with the people I coach. In our work together, I will help you identify your goal and the steps necessary to meet that goal. I believe that it is possible to move to a place of satisfaction and fulfillment in your love life--you just need the right advice and support.

During our time together, I’ll ask questions to better understand your situation. We’ll then work together to create a goal and make an action plan for how to work toward that goal. Part of the action planning process includes breaking down your goal into measurable, attainable steps that you can take right away. I’ll also provide you with individualized feedback and suggestions. Everything is tailored to you and your specific relationship issues. 

FAQs About Dating Coaching

What is relationship & dating coaching?

The term “dating coach” or “relationship coach” is exactly what it sounds like: a person who provides coaching services to help people with dating and relationship issues. 

But what actually is coaching?

The concept is no different than a sports coach. Just as a tennis coach would provide support to an athlete and offer advice, direction, and feedback from the sidelines, I will do the same for you--with your love life.

Image of a couple looking at each other and smiling. Representing the type of dating life you can have with support from a relationship coach in Los Angeles, CA. who will give you feedback and advice during dating coaching sessions.

As your dating coach, I will help you take stock of what’s working well in your love life and what needs to change. From there, I will provide you with suggestions and tools to help you reach your desired outcome--whatever that looks like for you.

What is the difference between a dating coach and a therapist?

Both a dating coach and a therapist can play important roles in helping you improve your success with dating and your satisfaction with your relationships. However, the roles they play are different.

Each therapist is different, and each person’s therapy experience will look different as well. With that being said, relationship therapy may focus on issues of attachment, part of which may entail processing your relationships with your caregivers growing up.

Therapy can also help identify limiting thought patterns and beliefs, as well as discussing how mental health or substance abuse issues impact your love life. If this sounds like it’s more suitable for your situation, learn more about therapy for dating and relationship issues on this page.

Dating coaching, on the other hand, focuses more on taking action to work toward a specific goal. The process will be tailored to your specific needs. However, it generally involves collaborating around a plan to reach your dating and relationship goals, as well as providing feedback and expert advice. 

How is dating coaching different than just talking to a friend?

It can certainly be helpful to have the support of your friends when navigating your love life. Swapping dating stories and commiserating about the hardships of dating is often a part of healthy friendships.

Image of two people out on a lunch date. Representing the type of situations that dating coaching can help with. You can go on a date feeling confident with support of a dating coach for women & men in LA.

However, this is different from working with a dating coach. As your relationship coach, I provide an impartial viewpoint that friends are inherently unable to provide. I can look at your dating life with fresh eyes, pointing out things that you and your friends may not have been able to pick up on.

I also provide expert advice and feedback based on my years of experience working with people around relationship issues. We’ll work together to make an actionable plan to improve your dating life--something that you typically wouldn’t get from venting to friends.

What will we talk about in our dating coaching sessions?

I tailor my dating coaching services to each person, so what I talk about with one client may be different from what I talk about with another. However, there are many common themes that come up during my coaching sessions, including:

  • Setting goals

  • Reviewing communication skills

  • Discussing what you’re looking for in a partner

  • Exploring ways to meet new people

  • Improving confidence 

  • Giving tips and feedback

This is not an exhaustive list--there are many other things we could discuss depending on your unique situation.

I don’t live in Los Angeles. Can we still work together?

Absolutely! Though my practice is based out of West L.A., I work with people across the country as an online dating coach.

Work Toward Your Goals with Dating Coaching in Los Angeles, CA

If you’re ready to feel more fulfilled in your dating life, then I can help as a relationship coach. I will work with you to customize your dating coaching sessions to your unique needs and goals. If you are ready to get started at Therapy for Adults then follow these steps:

  1. Reach out or call (323) 538-3221 today to schedule a consultation

  2. Start meeting with me as your dating coach

  3. Get advice and feedback that will help improve your dating life

Other Therapy Services I Offer in Los Angeles, California

Aside from being a dating coach I am also a therapist who offers online therapy throughout Los Angeles and California. I offer counseling for anxiety, highly sensitive people, and couples.